Instead of saying “I don’t have time” try saying “it’s not a priority,” and see how that feels. Often, that’s a perfectly adequate explanation. I have time to iron my sheets, I just don’t want to. But other things are harder. Try it: “I’m not going to edit your résumé, sweetie, because it’s not a priority.” “I don’t go to the doctor because my health is not a priority.” If these phrases don’t sit well, that’s the point. Changing our language reminds us that time is a choice. If we don’t like how we’re spending an hour, we can choose differently.
— Unknown (via 1112pm)
Joshua Hayward photographed by Nic Shonfeld
oh my gOD!!!!!!!!!
Just be fucking honest about how you feel about people while you’re alive.
— John Mayer (via hefuckin)
i aspire to be one of those people who are known for always smelling good and treating people kindly